Monday, March 28, 2011

I swear I sound like a broken record...




Okay....since my last two rants on my other blog weren't enough for people I shall rant again. This time though, I am not only going at it from military stand-point so it gets to be on my Spazz-rage blog.

Definition of Marriage: the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law

Definition of Girlfriend:
a female friend with whom a man or boy is romantically or sexually involved; sweetheart

Seems to be a difference there right?

So I think it is fair to say that Marriage is not just a piece of paper since it is a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law. Whereas a girlfriend is a "female friend" that someone is romantically involved with. Wait minute, there is no obligation there? No recognization. Oh that's right when you google girlfriend you don't find any nice in depth articles on recognized by the congregation as boyfriend and girlfriend, you don't see judges giving people certificates of courtship.

It really bothers me to see that some women say that marriage isn't a big deal. I am sorry but my husband and I dated for a LONG time before we decided to get married, we put it off for awhile and tried cohabiting with each other on weekends or when I was off for a few days in a row to see if we could put up with each other. He proposed to me and we stayed engaged for a while to make sure that was what we wanted. We got married because he wanted to be able to call me his wife, and that I would be HIS spouse. That I would be Mrs. Smith and not the girl he was just dating in high school. When you say that marriage is just a piece of paper you are downplaying the beauty of the love a married couple shares. They made a vow to each other to take care of each other in sickness and health while you are only there living with the man with the thoughts of maybe one day settling down. Those who think it's just a piece of paper, for the sake of not being hypocritical I hope never get married. If it's just a piece of paper, I am sure you can function just fine for the rest of your life as his "girlfriend" that way you will always be known as " the girlfriend" or "his lady friend" ...not many people will take you seriously if you can't commit, I know I wouldn't.



~Smithers

Friday, March 25, 2011

Dear Spazzoids and Military Affiliates,


Now please for the love of all things sacred...please stop talking about it.

~Smithers

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Dear Spazzoids,

My Rant today is about people who throw what they view as an accomplishment in others faces to "win" so...you were followed by someone? So you were liked by a celebrity. When you actually meet these people in person and prove that it really them and not some poser on the internet and I will believe you...make sure to get some good pictures too. That way everyone else will believe you as well. Bragging about your accomplishments and "credentials" is just sad, well I deserve this for my website I made. Well then Liesl(founder of operationmilitarylove.com) deserves a Nobel Peace Prize cause she has effectively ran wonderful websites for a LONG time and I have not once heard her name in a derogatory argument about some debate or being "ban happy". Not once have I heard her talk about how some well known person added her to their twitter favorite people, or how she deserved anything.

Doing so only opens peoples eyes as to how immature and low you really are. That would be like me flashing an email from Robert Enforsen all over facebook saying "Look I am so much better than you because he had a conversation with me about my life and my poetry." -.- Some people lack that filter on their brains that tells them that to insert foot in mouth and hop away.

If I want to know why you are so much better than me I will start a fan club in your honor where you can come and broadcast your greatness, but do not make support pages and use them as an outlet for how amazing YOU are. Support pages are for the people as a whole for support not for them to go when they need a shoulder to lean on and see how much freaking better you are then them because they aren't invited to Brittney Spears Slumber Party or something.

So until you cure all disease in the world, solve world hunger, or bring our troops home...you deserve NOTHING. Be glad you get what recognition you do get and stop bragging about it. Just makes you like like a prick.

(p.s- before everyone goes off and says "talking about the email from robert enforsen makes you no better than her" the reason I said that was to make an example. Do I really look so awesome that I would have a convo with one of the greatest foreign synthopop artists? SMH)

~Smithers

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

So Close...

So close to saying Goodbye....
I never wanted to do this again, I didn't want to say goodbye so soon.
I am hoping that it is a boring deployment for him.
I know most of the time I am sarcastic but this is a time I have to be serious.

I love him.
C.S has my heart.